Spare the rod, educate the child

Thursday, May 17, 2007

I refer to the article NZ passes disputed smacking bill on BBC News.

Summary

This article talks about the New Zealand parliament passing a controversial and highly debated bill disallowing parents to hit their children with too much force. In the application of this law, the police will be used as arbiters to decide if force used has breached the “allowed” amount. This law is a change from the past, where an ambiguous law allowing parents to use “reasonable force” to discipline their child.

Reflection

Spare the rod, spoil the child? Upon reading this article, I thought of the controversy surrounding corporal punishment in schools that exists right here in Singapore. While some teachers feel that corporal punishment is the best (or only) way to discipline children, more students, their egos having expanded since the previous century, are indignant that teachers should not be able to use brute force to punish them. And now, New Zealand even thinks that parents should not be able to use excessive force to discipline their OWN children.

Firstly, is brute force effective? I think not. When I was young, my father resorted to using a cane to punish my wrongdoings. While I cried my heart out after that, I do not feel that these acts of corporal punishment helped to shape my character in a moral way. Rather, it stirred up feelings of bitterness and resentment in me, and I am sure that corporal punishment would have the same effect in other children. At most, corporal punishment would terrify the child in question to not doing wrong things, but it most probably would not explicitly inform the child why he could not do something. Therefore, I feel that the ‘rod’ would not have any long-lasting effect on the morality of a child.

Next, should parents be allowed to discipline their children using force? Afterall, the parents were the ones who begot the children. However, I agree with the recently passed law. Children, even if still under the protection of their parents, should not have to suffer the emotional and physical torture inflicted by their parents. In fact, I feel that the fact that the parents are supposed to have a blood bond with their children makes it worse. The children, after having endured a beating from their parents, may feel that their parents, the people they trusted and loved so much, and become depressed and ruin their lives, as a result.

Alternatively, one must also consider the view of the parents. Having watched their precious children grow up with them, they must feel anguish when their children misbehave, or do inappropriate things. Indeed, some parents even see their children as a mirror for them to see themselves in, and thus may feel further sorrow at watching their children tread the proverbial criminal path of no return. In this case, they may lose all reason, and resort to disciplining their children physically. However, does it mean that their actions can be justified by their anguish or sorrow? They should also understand the feelings of their own children, who may have committed wrongdoing out of sheer innocence, or led astray by errant peers.

In conclusion, it is my opinion that while the feelings of the parents must be considered, they should maintain presence of mind while disciplining their children, and understand that their children are still immature. Also, the education system as a whole must stop using the corporal punishment, and instead groom the leaders of tomorrow via effective morality lessons incorporated into the syllabus.

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Phishing for money

Monday, May 14, 2007

I refer to the article ID Thieves' New Tricks at RD.com (Link to article).

Reflection

While technology is advancing and growing rapidly, it is also a new way for hackers and identity thieves now have more options to steal identities, PIN numbers and money.

The article summarized the various ways taken by online identity thieves to prey on unwary online users, tricking them into handing over their credit card or ATM card numbers. Indeed, the Internet has become a great way for identity thieves to strike, as it affords them the anonymity to strike bold deals and arrange for normally-preposterous sounding propositions. Although the article is not local, it should be noted that such scams and phishes could also happen in Singapore, given the all-encompassing nature of the Internet. Personally, I get the odd phishing email every now and then, which frustrates me to no end, and I am pretty sure that many Singaporeans currently face the same problem. Also, while most of us may assume that we are above falling for such scams, the many cases of people that have been the victims of countless scams and phishes that have been reported in the papers should be warning enough for us. The article rightly pointed out that while computer users are getting more savvy and are now able to distinguish real email from fake, the phishermen are similarly adapting to the mindsets of their potential victims, changing their baiting tactics to keep up with the times.

Apart from being a nuisance to web-users, this problem is evidently a great problem for the government and law enforcers as well, not to mention credit card and ATM card companies. While the law enforcers appear to spend sizeable chunks of their time trying to hunt down the apparently ‘anonymous’ web criminals, spending much money on state-of-the-art equipment to facilitate this, the credit card companies do not have a much easier task either. The article relates many cases of inconvenience to such companies, who may suddenly have their cards hijacked or machines malfunctioning as a result of identity thefts. The repercussions could be, and often are, severe, especially in terms of reputation of the company – usually irreversible damage; while the online thieves take to the Net to earn a quick buck, they are not realizing that they are setting off a chain reaction of societal problems.

To solve the problem, I feel that prevention is better than cure. In other words, we should not be looking to pick up the pieces by catching criminals, but success in deterring the criminals could be achieved if there was a heightened social awareness of the dangers. To rectify the problem, computer users must know that they are not dealing with the usual robbers and burglars in this advanced age, but rather a band of online thieves, who wield not swords, but innocuous-looking money-making propositions, friendly introductory letters, and such. I feel that law enforcers should make good use of the media to project this message, stressing utmost emphasis on carefulness and discernment when opening emails.

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